BETRAYAL WARNING: Juliane Serhan

Open letter to Juliane Serhan: Wellness Enterprise (Water Device) Representative.

Dear Jez,

This letter is about our friendship — not your marriage, not the affair, not what Dean discovered. This is about you and me, and the truth you have never taken accountability for. I already wrote about my overwhelming anger towards you, but there is more to share.

For almost two years, I confided in you about Richard — my love for him, my discernment around him, the emotional abuse, the blocking, the ghosting, the spiritual connection, the twin flame synchronicities, the Jesuit questions, the red flags, everything. You were fully aware of all of it. You witnessed every detail of my heart opening and every moment of pain that came with it.

You knew the entire story.

You also knew the abuse I endured. You knew how seriously I analyzed his background. You knew how much I struggled. You heard the full truth of who he was to me — and what he did to me.

So when you got caught in your own situation, the first lie you told was that Richard “wasn’t my twin flame.” You told Dean that because you wanted to justify your involvement with him.

But you know that’s false. Our whats app chat history proves it.

You acknowledged him as my twin flame repeatedly. You validated it. You encouraged it. You even told me to “keep it quiet” and “don’t tell anyone.”

You can’t rewrite history now because it suits you.

Lie #1: That you didn’t know the depth of my connection to Richard. You knew everything.

Lie #2: That you didn’t know about the abuse. You watched me go through it — and then you repeated the same abusive behaviour: You blocked me just like Richard did. You ignored me. You dismissed me. You mirrored his treatment of me.

Lie #3: That you weren’t influenced by his defamation of my character. When he said I was needy, intense, too much, over the top — YOU of all people knew that was untrue. You watched me stand in Christ consciousness for years. You saw how people treated me. You saw how I loved, how I worked, how I helped people. Yet you allowed Richard’s projections to overwrite the truth you personally witnessed. You defamed my character greatly.

You didn’t defend me. You didn’t correct him. You let him shape your perception of me. That is betrayal.

Then there’s the opportunism.

You watched me promote you, your business, your friends, your water device, your Wellness Enterprise connections. I created content for you. I drove hours to visit you. I worked on your website. I created your mother’s 80th birthday video. I helped her heal from shingles. I interviewed your circle for free. I brought you into my world — my people, my heart, my contacts.

And then you took the highest-level contact I have — someone I intentionally kept private for two years — and you promoted him publicly after blocking me.

You used the LinkedIn profile I created for you. You used the website I started building for you. You used the audience I helped you get.

If my “reality was noise,” as you said, then why did you rely on my skills, my intuition, my intelligence, my visibility, my platforms?

Explain that.

Then you put up a fake photo of yourself on Facebook — full makeup, cross necklace, sunset background — suddenly talking about “the New World Order” and “evolution is an inside job.”You copied my language. You copied my lane. You stepped into a space I’ve held for years while abandoning the friendship entirely.

And worst of all — you ignored every warning about Richard. You knew I had two years of evidence of his behavioural pattern. You knew he had a terrible reputation. You knew he was psychologically destructive towards me.

But you didn’t care. You didn’t discern. You didn’t research. You didn’t pause. You didn’t ask me anything. You just dove into chaos that wasn’t yours.

And then you lied about it.

You told people you barely knew him — but your chat history with him (and with me) says otherwise. You told people I wasn’t connected to him — another lie. You told your husband a version of reality that made you look innocent — and me look delusional.

Meanwhile, behind the scenes, you were involving yourself with someone you only knew because of me. You hijacked a connection you never had permission to enter.

And you did it knowingly.

This wasn’t confusion. This wasn’t misunderstanding. This was betrayal with full awareness.

So here is the truth you keep avoiding:

You were never in this friendship for truth. You were in it for knowledge, time, attention, and proximity to the kind of high-level people and information I attract.

When you no longer needed me, you blocked me. When Richard triangulated you, you let him. When my character was defamed, you stayed silent. When I was emotionally abused, you ignored it. When you saw my heart breaking, you turned away. When your marriage collapsed, I helped Dean — but you couldn’t help me once.

You did not care about my heart. If you had, none of this would have happened.

This is the truth you have been hiding from.

I am not writing this to attack you. I am writing this because the truth has been denied, twisted, and buried long enough.

I deserve honesty. I deserve accountability. I deserve closure. I deserve to have the truth reflected back accurately — not distorted.

You cannot rewrite my reality. You cannot rewrite the past. You cannot rewrite the love, the pain, the boundaries, or the betrayal.

This letter is simply the truth.

And the worst part? Your husband, Dean Spendlove, turned a blind eye and allowed this abuse to happen even though I asked him several times, over several months, to help me resolve this. I was silenced and blocked on all channels by you, and when I asked Dean for help in resolving this - he turned a blind eye. He did not stand in truth about my character, nor did he help heal any of the trauma that transpired because of the lies that were spread about me. I supported him through the trauma that resulted in him discovering the affair, but he did nothing to help make this right. He stayed silent and said nothing to clear the defamation of my character - even though I asked him several times to. Any man who allows this level of abuse to happen by his wife - is not to be trusted.

—Sheena